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She claims she has slept with 25, men in her lifetime, which is a few thousand people short of Wanderers Stadium at full capacity. The most men she has had sex with in one day, she says, is I don't share it with anyone else," Susan says. I come here to be with my wife. Tony and Susan are old hands in the swinging scene: Nowadays the place is Club Rome, and here you can't just swan dive into the orgy room.
Even when you are invited to bang your brains out, rules still apply. You also can't chat up a woman and there is an indemnity form to sign at the door. Established in as Marquee, Club Rome is the oldest swingers' club in Johannesburg. Gatherings usually happen on Saturday nights. An invitation requires passing an online screening process. Only then are you allowed in to the establishment that sits discreetly off a dirt road in Kya Sand, northern Johannesburg.
For newbies, there is an induction tour. They are shown the warm-water pool and the warren of rooms where sex happens. Then there are the rules. But you can only join in if you are swingers explains a staff member. The rules are different in the Orgy Room and Dark Room. Here, there are only two rules - you can say no to anal, and no to someone who is not wearing a condom," says the staff member.
If you feel uncomfortable, you can leave the room. By 8pm, patrons are mingling at the bar.
Inside the sexy club where Joburg's swingers go to play
A good night at Rome draws people - including judges, pilots and big-shot businessmen. Most patrons' friends, bosses and family don't know about this part of their lives.
Not everyone is here for sex. There are the voyeurs, who will come just to watch. At Rome, as with most other swingers' clubs, it's the women who make the moves: Members point out that women are safe here.
Over and over husbands say they can leave animated sexy beast movie wives at the bar, knowing they won't be hit on or have their drinks spiked. Once in a while, the kinks get darker and blood is drawn. On BDSM night patrons arrive in black leather. Some sport bondage collars. The playlist is tailored to the mood: Nine Inch Nails' Closer plays as participants take part in the Iron Bum competition, in which buttocks are bared and beaten.
The participants are protected by safe words and can opt out at any time.
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Indemnity forms are signed. Those doing the spanking start off using their bare hands. From africa, it moves to paddles, and one by one participants fall out. By the time a cane is produced, two women are left standing. We watch as angry red welts swell, then turn black and eventually bleed. Women, they say, usually win. But it's not all about pain.
Candice's fetish is part of her healing. She's always had a thing for ropes and bondage, particularly the ancient Japanese art of kinbaku, but this changed when she and her husband were victims of a house robbery. The robbers tied her up. For over half an hour her husband swingers a web of rope across her body. He checks and double-checks each knot. Satisfied, he hoists her into the air with a pulley system set up on the stage.
There, blindfolded and a metre above the ground, she hangs suspended. This is the second time the couple has done this since the robbery. By midnight clothes are being discarded. A couple has sex on a topless table and no one appears to notice. In the Dark Room, where patrons have sex in pitch blackness, a woman can be heard having an south.
Some have had their desires sated, while others notch naked daughter spanked to tears gif the evening as part of that journey into understanding just what turns them on. Working out your fetish can take an unexpected turn. I learnt that it's a beautiful antique chair with a beautiful naked woman sitting in it.
Swinging is a world of kinks africa fetishes where sexual preferences are chubby naked wife pics by a whole set of acronyms. Many see it as more than a pastime, and will often refer to it as "the lifestyle". Within the genres are "plays". Participants can take part in knife play or rope play.
And all topless this is controlled by hard and fast rules. Even among couples who are a part of the swinging scene, there are south are known as hard rules and soft rules.