I can just give u the tip and work that clit.
I have feeling you stopped pursuing anyone unlikely to go for you. I know a guy who had a hobby of corrupting Mormon girls he was abused by his TBM parentsand I'm told you're both right.
LDS theology heavily promotes the idea that marriage and family are an important source of happiness in this life, not just the next.
Doesn't leave many options here though but better than constantly having them push the church on you until you either give in and convert or break up.