I only hate one thing in the planet, and that's the Mormon church. I hope I can forgive it someday, but even still my anger is red hot.
I would show her this recent post for example: Her family will also be thinking about this and will mhdporner to you about it when you spend time with them. It's a great idea to know where you stand so that you'll be prepared when this comes up in conversation.
I was spiritually prepared to receive the answer that I sought.