Yeah, that does sound like a lot and obviously the effort it takes pays off since some women really manage to bring their A game when it comes to looking good on camera.
I would never change my decision to marry him. Not in endless discussions of temple marriage, not ever.
I had been teetering on the fringes for quite a long time, mostly coming to Church but not really being present, because I felt like an outcast as an older single. Nothing fixed that issue in me as fast as being almost inseparably bound to a woman that pushed back and kicked screaming against the pricks every time I wanted to make some sort of spiritual effort.
Like it was mentioned above, see how she deals some of the issues now and if she can't handle it, it might be better to find someone else. She may be beautiful, friendly, and sincere.
Save her and yourself more pain by ending it before you fall in love.
You are looking for evidence that a. She may have served a mission as an ultimatum to herself.